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#Another new daddy!

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#35507From: robert fisherOct 17, 1993 1:41 PM
Then, you shouldn't be wondering why it's taken me so long to answer! This is the first time I've been able to get on CI$ in weeks! And I fully expect someone to call and knock me off the line any moment. Sheila is 1 month old today. I feel about 2 years older! Strange… time has changed. Even though individual days (and NIGHTS!) have lasted FOREVER, this month has FLOWN by! Gotta go… Robert
#35524From: Stephen SponagleOct 18, 1993 1:15 PM
Robert, Well, at least you're hanging in there! Stephanie is going on 7 weeks. She has become a new person! She doesn't cry (as much) and sleeps 8 hours at a time. I've been told when they reach 10 pounds, dramatic changes start happening (for the better!) Go on, now and get some sleep! 🙂
#35529From: Greg KnappOct 18, 1993 6:29 PM
steve, rob, congrats I'll be going though it too… Erika Rose Knapp 10/16/93 7:11pm Here's to No Sleep… Greg Knapp
#35552From: Stephen SponagleOct 19, 1993 6:10 PM
And Congrats to YOU, DAD! Best of Luck with the sleep, lifestyle change, and more happiness than you could ever imagine! -Steve
#35558From: Greg KnappOct 19, 1993 10:31 PM
Thanx Steve… I posted a jpeg cigar pic in the 3d section of amiga arts donno if it got past the sysops yet tho? Greg Knapp | ppanK gerG
#35855From: robert fisherNov 7, 1993 12:32 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!! So, Greg, how have you managed to survive the first few weeks? Have you got a good supply of toothpicks to prop your eyes open with? Robert
#35556From: Mike SchillerOct 19, 1993 9:52 PM
Steve: Enjoy the peace while it lasts! When they get to about 2 years old (with some it starts at around 1.5 years) they seem to learn the meaning of NO, and tell it to you as often as possible. The "terrible 2's" also usually last about 2 years! 🙂 by the time they get to be 5 they start to be little people, and their personalities start to come out. My daughter is 6-1/2 going on 25 I think! She takes forever getting ready to go to school, and gets upset if her hair isn't just right! I'm told that as they get older and bigger so do their problems, but I hope that's not the case. 🙂 // -Mike Schiller \X/ AMIGA! On AutoPilot in sunny Fort Lauderdale
#35563From: Stephen SponagleOct 20, 1993 10:45 AM
Thanks Mike, I know I've got a lot ahead of me (about 20 years). Luckily, I have brothers and sisters with older kids. So I have a lot of experience to tap. -Steve
#35854From: robert fisherNov 7, 1993 12:28 PM
Steve, I was figuring on about 30 years… Then my sister had to point out that my brother is still a problem for my parents…and he's 50 years old! You just never know! My daughter is 7 weeks old now. She and her momma have gone off to visit relatives. I haven't seen them for a week and won't see them for another week…all I have for company is the cat (who just came wandering in the room). I'm certainly enjoying the chance to sleep. But I find it's kind of lonely. My daughter will be different when I see her again. A strange feeling…
#35866From: Robert LittleNov 7, 1993 9:30 PM
Really to all on this "Another new daddy", A little different for me though… Just had my girlfriend's son move in! We thought he'd be better off with his dad…appearently not… Hmmmmm…looks like I'm a new daddy. I've got a 14 year old to worry about now……………………………. Hmmmmmnm,,,, Robb
#35898From: Paul ToalNov 9, 1993 4:17 AM
Look on the brite side, it's easier to kick a 14 year old's ass out the house. Babies are too cute, it's a genetic defense mechanism. We practiced with a dog, at least you can take them back to the Pound. The Pound doesn't accept babies anymore, maybe 14 year olds though.
#35915From: Robert LittleNov 9, 1993 11:15 PM
Well, hopefully we'll be able to wait 'til he's 18 to kick his butt out the door but, I don't think one of those cute little babies is in my future (sob??) so, maybe I should be handing out cigars? (I checked with the pound, nope, not 14 year olds). Robb
#36332From: robert fisherDec 4, 1993 10:35 AM
Starting out with a teenager!? You're a braver man than I, Gunga Din. Robert
#36446From: Robert LittleDec 10, 1993 1:23 AM
Robert, It's only been a few weeks now and my bravery is running low. The kid is not a hoodlum but, damnit (I usually put some ** in those) he's still a teenager! It's definitely more difficult than I thought! Although, I did not have any blinders on going into this, I know what I was like! I wasn't a real 'blem but, now I know how much my parents worried that I perhaps was…thanks for the positive(?) input. I hope I can live up to it. Robb
#35904From: Stephen SponagleNov 9, 1993 11:27 AM
Hey Robert, My wife goes to this "Beyond Baby Basics" Class. She comes back saying that we are so lucky. Some parents are forced to have their baby in bed with them, even at several months old! Our Stephanie sleeps the full night, going to bed between 8:00 and 11:00 and waking around 6:00/6:30. I get to bring her to mom for feeding and change her diaper. This morning was the messiest diaper yet! She ate more than ever yesterday. She is 10 weeks old Tuesday, and is talking in run-on sentences, although only she knows what she is saying! Hang in there, Robert! -Steve
#36331From: robert fisherDec 4, 1993 10:34 AM
Steve, Sheila is 11 weeks old (yesterday) and is sleeping thru the night… GREAT!!! Unfortunately, Mamma just went back to work this week (for the first time in three months!) and we've had to send our daughter to someone ELSE during the day…It's HARD letting someone else raise our child!!! Maybe it's time to move out of California and find somewhere with a reasonable cost of living. Isn't it incredible how much food those little bodies can put away!? All the smiles and laughs…kinda makes it all worth while, doesn't it? At least for now…I keep hearing stories about when they reach <fill in the blank> years old… I've probably only got a little while longer before the incredible eating machine wakes up again so I had better get on with it! Robert
#36338From: Stephen SponagleDec 4, 1993 3:40 PM
Hi Robert, I'm glad to hear your little Sheila is doing fine. It's wonderful to get a full night's sleep (again!) My wife elected to stay home and, get this, sell Tupperware. She's real excited and expects to exceed my income, which has been very little lately (a lot of receivables, but no cash). Stephanie is sucking down six ounces at a time, now. She's also poops the entire rainbow of colors! I think there are more colors there than my Firecracker board can display! <<move out to California and find somewhere with a reasonable cost of living.>> HOOO-BOY! You should get some responses with that one! Actually, the cost of living might drop, relative to the normal increases, due to the mass exodus of industry out of the state. I want to move to New Mexico as soon as I can do it. My sister and mom live about an hour South and East of Santa Fe, near the Jemez Pueblo. A most beautiful area! I think its great that you and I take an active interest in our daughters. A lot of dads run out of the house with the first whimper, and they refuse to change diapers! (can you believe it?!?). Take care, Robert, Talk to ya soon… -Steve